If you have ever spent time on a boat or any type of watercraft, you know how easy it is to drift. A slow wind, a change in current, or other boats on the water easily can cause you to find yourself where you do not want to be. At times, the drift is so subtle you don’t even realize it’s happening. That often is the case when you are drifting apart from your wife.
Drifting is not intentional; it gradually happens over a period of time.
If you feel like you are far apart from your wife, here are 4 steps to close the distance and get back to where you want to be.
Step 1: Confront it.
There is a hilarious moment in the movie Dumb and Dumber when Harry and Lloyd find themselves in Nebraska instead of Aspen. It wasn’t on purpose; it was a mistake. They argued, sold the van, and found a way to get back on track. They pivoted. If you think you are drifting, like Harry and Lloyd, you have to confront it and change direction….(continue reading here.)