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4 Signs Your Fast-Paced Life is Killing You

4 Signs Your Fast-Paced Life is Killing You

About a year ago, I hurt my back and had to see my doctor. As I sat on the crunchy ...
5 Steps to Combat Weaponized Incompetence in Marriage

5 Steps to Combat Weaponized Incompetence in Marriage

God calls couples to live in mutual love, respect, and support in the sacred bond of marriage.  Ephesians 5:21 teaches us ...
Marriage Pursuit Challenge

Marriage Pursuit Challenge

Pursuing the Heart of Your Spouse A 5 Day Prayer and Pursuit Challenge for Married Couples Married Couples: enjoy this ...
5 Tips to Prioritize Your Marriage During the Holidays

5 Tips to Prioritize Your Marriage During the Holidays

With school functions, Christmas parties, and youth activities, our kids tend to be the focus ...
3 Emotional Threats to Your Marriage

3 Emotional Threats to Your Marriage

A few weeks ago, I was spending time with one of my mentors and we ...
La Amenaza Emocional Mas Peligrosa Para Tu Matrimonio

La Amenaza Emocional Mas Peligrosa Para Tu Matrimonio

Antes de que una pareja camine por el altar del matrimonio, a menudo sueñan con ...
Tres Formas de Contrarrestar la Crítica en el Matrimonio

Tres Formas de Contrarrestar la Crítica en el Matrimonio

No juzguen y no se les juzgará. No condenen y no se les condenará. Perdonen ...
5 Questions Your Wife Wants You to Ask Her

5 Questions Your Wife Wants You to Ask Her

We heard glass slam on the floor behind us as we ate our dinner. My ...
EH Podcast: Family of Origin and Marriage

EH Podcast: Family of Origin and Marriage

PURSUING THE HEART OF YOUR SPOUSE PODCAST SERIES Episode 5: FAMILY OF ORIGIN / A ...
EH Podcast: Honesty in Marriage

EH Podcast: Honesty in Marriage

PURSUING THE HEART OF YOUR SPOUSE PODCAST SERIES EPISODE 4: Honesty in Marriage On today's ...
EH Podcast: Adjusting Expectations in Marriage

EH Podcast: Adjusting Expectations in Marriage

PURSUING THE HEART OF YOUR SPOUSE PODCAST SERIES EPISODE 3: Adjusting Expectations in Marriage On ...
EH Podcast: Principles for Pursuing the Heart of Your Spouse

EH Podcast: Principles for Pursuing the Heart of Your Spouse

PURSUING THE HEART OF YOUR SPOUSE PODCAST SERIES EPISODE 2: Principles for Pursuing the Heart ...
EH Podcast: Assumed Letdown A Sneaky Emotional Threat

EH Podcast: Assumed Letdown A Sneaky Emotional Threat

PURSUING THE HEART OF YOUR SPOUSE PODCAST SERIES EPISODE 1: ASSUMED LETDOWN / A SNEAKY ...
5 Lame Excuses for Not Taking Your Wife on Dates

5 Lame Excuses for Not Taking Your Wife on Dates

I looked across the table at my wife and said, “It’s hard to beat a ...
Christmas Lights Date Night Bingo

Christmas Lights Date Night Bingo

Christmas Lights Date Night Bingo Enjoy the twinkle of Christmas lights this season on this ...
Fall Date Night Questions

Fall Date Night Questions

Date Night Questions Use these questions to spark meaningful conversation as a couple whether you ...
EH Podcast: Resentful Support

EH Podcast: Resentful Support

Bobby welcomes his lovely bride Jenn to the podcast to talk about the danger of ...
3 Ways to Counteract Criticism in Marriage

3 Ways to Counteract Criticism in Marriage

Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will ...
The Most Dangerous Emotional Threat to Your Marriage

The Most Dangerous Emotional Threat to Your Marriage

Before a couple walks down the marriage aisle, they often dream of what their life ...
Tips for Prioritizing Marriage in the Back to School Season

Tips for Prioritizing Marriage in the Back to School Season

Summer has been full of all the things.  Vacations, camps, late movie nights, fishing, swimming, ...
3 Things We Need to Be Honest About in Marriage

3 Things We Need to Be Honest About in Marriage

Years ago, I watched a man destroy his family. It was painful because so many ...
The Power of Celebrating Moments in Marriage

The Power of Celebrating Moments in Marriage

There we stood beaten and bruised in the kitchen of our Austin home. Hearts bleeding ...
Empowered Homes Podcast: Intimacy in Marriage with Missy Tuft and Pat Bramlett

Empowered Homes Podcast: Intimacy in Marriage with Missy Tuft and Pat Bramlett

On Episode 10 of the EH Podcast, Missy Tuft and Pat Bramlett (M.A., L.P.C.) discuss ...
3 Creative At Home Date Nights for Married Couples

3 Creative At Home Date Nights for Married Couples

Do you still date your Spouse?  Whether you have been married for only a year ...
3 Refreshers for a Marriage Stuck in the Roommate Phase

3 Refreshers for a Marriage Stuck in the Roommate Phase

School has started back, and our normal routines are in full swing. We wake up, ...
30 Days of Prayer to Grow a Strong Marriage

30 Days of Prayer to Grow a Strong Marriage

Praying with and for your spouse can seem like an awkward or intimidating task.  Most ...
5 Conversations to Help Your Marriage Thrive at Christmas

5 Conversations to Help Your Marriage Thrive at Christmas

A few years ago my wife and I, along with our three children, were traveling ...
Empowered Homes Podcast: Books for Marriage

Empowered Homes Podcast: Books for Marriage

We were asked on social media to share some books for your marriage. Bobby shares ...
3 Pieces of Baggage Your Wife Might've Brought Into Marriage

3 Pieces of Baggage Your Wife Might’ve Brought Into Marriage

The first year of my marriage was a boot camp for learning how to encourage, ...
5 Reasons You Stink at Fighting With Your Wife

5 Reasons You Stink at Fighting With Your Wife

You would think after 15 years of marriage, my wife and I would have figured ...
3 Ways You Reinforce the Lies Your Wife Believes About Herself

3 Ways You Reinforce the Lies Your Wife Believes About Herself

I came home from work a few months ago and our house was a train ...
Empowered Homes Podcast: Re|Engage Marriage Ministry

Empowered Homes Podcast: Re|Engage Marriage Ministry

The Impact of Re|Engage Marriage Ministry In this episode, Bobby sits down with Dan and ...
A Wife's Prayer for Her Husband

A Wife’s Prayer for Her Husband

A Wife's Prayer for Her Husband (Prayer from the “Power of a Praying Wife” by ...
A Husband's Prayer for His Wife

A Husband’s Prayer for His Wife

A Husband's Prayer for His Wife Heavenly Father,  I am coming before you to pray ...
Shopping Spree Date Night

Shopping Spree Date Night

Looking for new and exciting ways to date your spouse? Try the Shopping Spree Date ...
Progressive Dinner Date Night Challenge

Progressive Dinner Date Night Challenge

Looking for new and exciting ways to date your spouse? Try the Progressive Dinner Date ...
3 Questions to Ask Before You Leave Your Wife

3 Questions to Ask Before You Leave Your Wife

In 2015, my marriage was on the rocks. We had been kicked out of our ...
5 of the Best Things to do For Your Wife Everyday

5 of the Best Things to do For Your Wife Everyday

I am a creature of habit. I can’t say all my habits are good, however ...
4 Signs You Aren’t Prioritizing Your Marriage

4 Signs You Aren’t Prioritizing Your Marriage

Two weeks after my third child was born, I took on a new role at ...
5 Questions to Ask Your Wife When Life is Stressful

5 Questions to Ask Your Wife When Life is Stressful

I love to cook. Cooking is an opportunity to turn a vision into reality. And ...
Your Marriage and Prayer

Your Marriage and Prayer

If I were to tell you that there is a simple, 5-minute daily habit that ...
6 Valentine's Day Surprises That Cost Zero Money

6 Valentine’s Day Surprises That Cost Zero Money

I go back and forth every year when it comes to celebrating Valentine’s Day. On ...
4 Steps When You Are Drifting Apart from Your Wife

4 Steps When You Are Drifting Apart from Your Wife

If you have ever spent time on a boat or any type of watercraft, you ...
Gospel Gifts

Gospel Gifts for Your Spouse

I want to be upfront with you from the start of this short article. I ...
Diffuse Arguments

5 Ways to Diffuse Arguments During the Holidays

I LOVE Christmas! I love the idea of “Peace on Earth”, but December can take ...
7 Questions to Ask Your Spouse in 2020

7 Questions to Ask Your Spouse in 2020

I love to cook. Cooking is an opportunity to turn vision into reality. The process ...
How to Win at Marriage (Part 2): Putting Covenant Love into Practice

How to Win at Marriage (Part 2): Putting Covenant Love into Practice

In “How to Win at Marriage (Part 1),” I closed with these words: If you ...
How to Win at Marriage (Part 1): Is your Marriage a Contract or Covenant?

How to Win at Marriage (Part 1): Is your Marriage a Contract or Covenant?

A man told his wife one day that he had not been feeling well. So, ...
Stewardship: Put It All Together

Financial Clarity – Step 4: Put It All Together

In our series on finding financial clarity, we’ve taken three key steps to better stewardship: ...
Date Night Questions 02

Date Night Questions 02

Use these questions as a guide to create authentic connection on your next date night! ...
Take Action

Financial Clarity – Step 3: Take Action

Next in our series on financial clarity, it's time to put your money where your ...
Share Your List

Financial Clarity – Step 2: Share Your List

We're in a series of articles designed to help married couples achieve financial clarity. One ...
Write it down

Financial Clarity – Step 1: Write It Down

For the next few weeks we want to dive deep into four steps that will ...
Not Lust, Purity

Not Lust, Purity

In Matthew 5, Jesus turned his attention and ours to adultery and the lustful heart ...
Date Night Questions 01

Date Night Questions 01

Use these questions as a guide to create authentic connection on your next date night! ...
5 Tips for a Stress-Free Holiday with Your In-Laws

5 Tips for a Stress-Free Holiday with Your In-Laws

I have been blessed to have some incredible in-laws. My wife’s parents are great, and ...
Ten Things I Want to Tell My Wife

Ten Things I Want to Tell My Wife

I was one of those fortunate kids whose grandparents and parents set a great example ...
5 Things Not to Say to a Wife Who Struggles with Anxiety

5 Things Not to Say to a Wife Who Struggles with Anxiety

One day I was in a meeting at work when my wife called. I discreetly sent ...
3 Questions to Ask to Connect More Deeply with Your Wife

3 Questions to Ask to Connect More Deeply with Your Wife

Marriage takes work. When you buy a new big screen TV, it comes with hundreds ...
The 3 Types of Intimacy Your Wife Needs

The 3 Types of Intimacy Your Wife Needs

For most of my life, when I heard the word intimacy, all I could think ...
intimacy in marriage

Podcast: Intimacy in Marriage- Interview with Jim Burns

In this episode, Bobby interviews Jim Burns to talk about the three types of intimacy ...
how to process pain

How to Process Pain: What You Should Do (Part 2)

It should come as no surprise that emotional pain is an ever-present part of our ...
Fighting for Your Marriage Through Prayer

Fighting for Your Marriage Through Prayer

Let’s be honest, isn’t marriage a little more difficult than what you thought it would ...
How to Process Pain: What NOT To Do (Part 1)

How to Process Pain: What NOT To Do (Part 1)

What we decide to do with the pain we experience every day is critical. If ...
conflict

Has the Coronavirus Quarantine Created Marriage Conflict?

While many marriages and relationships have embraced this time of quarantine for the better, others ...
Have That Conversation Now

Have That Conversation Now

Parents, your words are powerful! Use these 10 everyday phrases to instill confidence, self-respect, and ...
Podcast: Marriage - Together Through the Storms

Podcast: Marriage – Together Through the Storms

"For better or worse" is what we said on our wedding day. In this episode, ...
How To Honor Your Wife

How To Honor Your Wife

What do you think of when you hear the word “honor?” Some will think of ...
How To Lead Your Wife Through Miscarriage

How To Lead Your Wife Through Miscarriage

If you are reading this article, there is high certainty you are walking through a ...
Recursos en español

Recursos en español

Recursos en español ...
Protecting Your Marriage Through Coronavirus

Protecting Your Marriage Through Coronavirus

Recently there was a headline in the Daily Mail which stated: “Divorce rate spikes across ...
Four Things Your Spouse Needs in a Crisis

Four Things Your Spouse Needs in a Crisis

In the middle of a crisis, married couples usually respond in different ways. One spouse ...
Have Stay Home Date Nights

Have Stay Home Date Nights

In response to the current events happening due to COVID-19, Adult Discipleship Pastor Bobby Cooley ...
Marriage: The School of Spiritual Formation

Marriage: The School of Spiritual Formation

Would you like to grow in your relationship with God? What if I told you ...
Marriage and the Power of Mourning

Marriage and the Power of Mourning

The Rest of the Story was a popular radio broadcast by the legendary Paul Harvey ...
We Were Here First: How To Prioritize Your Marriage in a Child-Centric World

We Were Here First: How To Prioritize Your Marriage in a Child-Centric World

Freedom is God’s gift to every believer that tears down walls so we can live ...
Do You Touch This More Than You Touch Your Wife?

Do You Touch This More Than You Touch Your Wife?

You touch it first thing in the morning. You touch it before you leave for ...
Amor Inquebrantable (en español)

Amor Inquebrantable (en español)

En este taller, el pastor Cesar y su esposa Gretha compartirán su experiencia como pareja ...
Teaching Session: For Women Only-Discover True Intimacy

Teaching Session: For Women Only-Discover True Intimacy

God has a unique role for wives within the context of marriage. Your freedom directly ...
Teaching Session: How to Prioritize Your Marriage

Teaching Session: How to Prioritize Your Marriage

The main, and most significant, relationship in our households should be between the husband and ...
Podcast: A Love Story and Blessing Your Spouse

Podcast: A Love Story and Blessing Your Spouse

In this episode, you will hear from Bobby Cooley and his wife, Jennifer. They share ...
Podcast: Conflict and Marriage

Podcast: Conflict and Marriage

In this episode, Bobby and his wife, Jenn, join Brad Flurry and his wife, Liz, ...
Four Questions That Spark Authentic Connection

Four Questions That Spark Authentic Connection

Better questions will revive our dinner table conversations and breathe life into our everyday connections ...
Courage Under Fire

Courage Under Fire

July 1, 1863... The largest military conflict in North American history began when Union and ...
Prayer for Our Marriage

Prayer for Our Marriage

PRAYER FOR OUR MARRIAGE Lord, I commit our marriage to you.  Forgive me for not ...
Communicating with Word Pictures

Communicating with Word Pictures

Jesus used stories to communicate truth to His listeners. He understood the power of word ...
From Blame to Blessing

From Blame to Blessing

Fred and Wilma are discouraged. It seems like they can’t talk about anything lately without ...
Everyday Rhythms in Marriage

Everyday Rhythms in Marriage

One of the best ways for us to equip parents is to build strong marriages ...
B.L.E.S.S. Your Spouse Every Day

B.L.E.S.S. Your Spouse Every Day

Every day is an opportunity to bless your spouse. This resource is a download card ...
Combating Negative Patterns: A Marriage Worksheet

Combating Negative Patterns: A Marriage Worksheet

According to the National Science Foundation, an average person has about 12,000 to 60,000 thoughts per ...
The Weight of Expectations

The Weight of Expectations

“It’s not the load that breaks you down, it’s how you carry it.” It was ...
Real Trust in Marriage

Real Trust in Marriage

I like my coffee strong, and my man likes his music loud. If given an ...
Maneuvering Parent and In-Law Relationships

Maneuvering Parent and In-Law Relationships

Relationships between married couples and their parents can come with a unique set of challenges ...
Navigating Arguments with your Spouse

Navigating Arguments with your Spouse

In this video, Dr. John Trent shares how to navigate arguments in a healthy way ...
Using Your Phone to Pray for Your Family

Using Your Phone to Pray for Your Family

When it comes to technology and your phone, most of the time all you hear ...
Four Things God's Word Teaches Us About Communication

Four Things God’s Word Teaches Us About Communication

In this video, Dr. John Trent challenges us to work on how we communicate with ...
Handling Conflict With Your Spouse

Handling Conflict With Your Spouse

Conflict in marriage is inevitable — so how do we respond to it in a ...
4 Reasons Why You Should Organize Your Time

4 Reasons Why You Should Organize Your Time

For the last few years at our Vacation Bible School, we have held a “Power ...
Valentine's Day Challenge

Valentine’s Day Challenge

Valentine’s Day... the annual celebration of love and commercialism – arrives every year, and many ...
Everyday Rhythms in Your Marriage

Everyday Rhythms in Your Marriage

We often talk about using the meal time, drive time, bed time and mornings as ...
Tips for a Healthy Marriage

Tips for a Healthy Marriage

Brad and Liz Flurry have been married over twenty years and have learned a few ...
Hope for Couples Facing Infertility

Hope for Couples Facing Infertility

On our seventh anniversary, we piled into exam room #2 to listen to our baby’s ...
Coping with the Pain of Miscarriage

Coping with the Pain of Miscarriage

Ten years ago, I sat on my back porch as my husband and my dad ...
Date Your Spouse

Date Your Spouse

Dating your spouse is one of the best things you can do as a parent ...